The Lick

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The First Touch

1. Test the waters with impeccable manners. This is a good way to break the touch barrier while making her feel comfortable and appreciated at the same time, especially early on when you're just getting to know each other.
   
   
   • If you're both about to leave and she needs to put on a jacket or coat, hold it out for her like a gentleman so that she can slip her arms into the sleeves. Bring the jacket gently up to her shoulders. The knuckles of your fingers will probably gently brush up against her as you're doing this. How does she respond? Does she pull away as soon as her jacket is on? Or does she linger, appreciating the gesture? If she responds positively and you notice that her hair is between her jacket and her back, pull it out for her carefully—pull the ends out without pulling the hair away from her scalp in any way. Be careful with this, since many girls have procedures for taking their hair out of their coats to retain their hairstyles. If you feel it is appropriate, this could be a good time to tell her that she has beautiful hair, or that it smells wonderful. People appreciate compliments. but try not to over do it with the compliments as they can make some people feel uncomfortable, and some people just don't know how to take a compliment.
   • Offer your hand when she might need to keep her balance, such as when she's getting into or out of a car, or when she's stepping over a puddle or any other uneven surface. Girls love this because it shows that you are thinking of her, not just yourself. This is more likely to be appropriate if she's dressed nicely or wearing heels. If the situation's more casual, go somewhere that you have to step up high (such as a ledge). Step up first, then turn around and hold out your hand to help her come up. When you come down, go first again and hold out your hand once more, helping her step down. How does she respond when you offer your hand? Does she seem receptive? Or does she hurry to let go? Some girls, depending on their styles, won't let go of your hand after you did this, so this is a surefire way to tell that she likes you.
   • Hold out your elbow as an invitation for her to hook her arm around yours, especially if you're about to walk together. This is a classically romantic way to walk as a couple without being too touchy-feely.
   • Ladies first. That is, allow her to go first through doors, corridors, or through friendly crowds (see below). A nice, firm gesture would be to press with your hand just above her waist, towards the door (or corridor), while saying "after you". Girls appreciate kindness and firmness in character. You might let your fingertips touch her up to the last moment, as she walks away, and just before you follow. Do not attempt to let your hand fall below the waistline, because she will immediately sense "this was your move", and unless she was expecting this, and you would not be needing these techniques, or this will be "your last move" with her. Other spots to press would be the back of the arm just above the elbow (especially recommended if the girl has her arms bare, e.g. she is wearing a short sleeve), or very softly and cautiously on the neck or shoulders. The neck is a bold move, and should only be attempted after you have confirmed that she is receptive to you. Remember, contact with bare skin should only be made with dry, warm hands.
   • Lead the way if you're about to go through a crowd. Hold out your hand so you can walk through the crowd without losing each other. This not only shows that you care about her, but it also shows that you can take the lead. Once you're out of the crowd, you can continue holding her hand (if she seems to want to).
2. Look for anything that may be on her face or hair. It's not uncommon to see a loose eyelash on someone's face, especially the cheek area. If you see one, tell her, "Hold still; you have an eyelash on your face. Let me get it off." Pull it off her face very gently—don't apply too much pressure, especially if she's wearing make-up. Some people will put an eyelash on their fingertip and make a wish before blowing it away; if you think she's the type to enjoy this, then show her the eyelash on your finger and ask her to make a wish and blow it away. If you see something in her hair (a piece of lint, a little branch, a ball of dust), do the same: ask her to stay still, and gently pull it out (but don't make a wish on it!).Also if she has a hair on her face or about to get in her eye, gently and slowly brush it away using either your thumb and forefinger or simply the longest finger on your hand (if you use the longest finger make sure to keep the rest of your fingers held out too. You dont want her to think you're flipping her off!).
   
   
   • If you want to slyly arrange an opportunity, you could take her somewhere that you know she'll probably get something in her hair (like a dusty attic or a part of the woods with low trees).
   • With anything that's on her face or hair that might be embarrassing (like a piece of food) you'll need to decide whether or not to do this. Some girls will be mortified if you tell her she has a dead spider in her hair and offer to pick it off; others will find it humorous. If you're not sure, don't point it out. She might come home and feel embarrassed that you saw something on her face or hair that wasn't flattering, but she can hope that you didn't notice, or that it wasn't there the whole time.
3. Notice something on her hands. Look carefully at her hands; does she have a different ring, a new cut, or a different nail color? Acknowledge it verbally ("That's a pretty ring" or "What happened to your finger?" or "Your nails look nice" - don't take it too far though, or she might think you bend the other way!). Hold out your hand, palm up, and ask if you can look closer. Inspect whatever is different, and ask a question or make a (positive) comment. While you're doing all of this, get a feel for how she responds to having her hand in yours. After she has responded to your comment or question, briefly rub her hand gently and let it go. Smile and quickly move on.
4. Keep her warm. If it's chilly outside and you notice that she's cold or shivering, first offer her your coat. Put it around her. Depending on how comfortable she feels around you, you might take your hands and brush them briskly on her upper arms to generate a little heat. Don't be too rough, though—light but fast. If you notice that her hands are cold, tell her to give you her hands and put them together (palm to palm). Put your hands around hers, rubbing gently but quickly to warm them. If you're feeling daring, bring her hands up to your mouth and blow a little warm air on them. (Don't do this if there's any risk that your breath is bad!).
5. Play a game. Various sports and other games establish a good environment for potential contact. Bowling, billiards/pool, team table tennis, rugby or other team games are just a few examples. Particularly if you are on the same team, you can congratulate her when she performs well (scoring, winning, etc.) by giving her a high five while smiling and looking in her eyes. If the first few high fives seem well received, you might want to try giving her hand a slight squeeze, holding it just a little longer than normal. Be sure to smile and make eye contact while doing this.
6. Take things up a notch. If she responded positively to all of the above, make your next move (or risk forever being trapped in the "friend" zone). That could be putting your arm around her shoulder or waist, or holding her hand. The back of the neck and the small of the back are two sensitive areas—see the video below. Most of all, relax, and pay attention to her demeanor.
7. Avoid the risky behavior. There are certain ways you can touch a girl that are more likely to make her feel uncomfortable, and shouldn't be attempted until you know her quite well and can read her body language.
   
   
   • Massages — Don't approach a girl and give her a shoulder massage, even if she complains about being sore or tired. It's not necessarily an invitation to get massaged by you. In some cases, it might be, but don't risk it unless you're confident that you're reading her correctly. It can make a girl very uncomfortable to be receiving a massage from someone she doesn't fancy, and you're putting her in a position where she has to ask you to stop, which is awkward.
   • Grabbing her arm — Don't grab any part of her arm with your hand and pull her to come somewhere with you. At best, this can be interpreted as annoying, and at worst, it can come off as an attempt to yank her around. Generally, any kind of pulling or tugging might be interpreted as immature or pushy. By contrast, lightly touching her arm while you are sitting and watching a movie, for example, may be interpreted as affectionate, similar to holding hands.

Source:http://www.wikihow.com/Touch-a-Girl

Where to Touch

Men love sex. We do. And there's nothing wrong with that. Many women also love sex, although few of them quite as much as we do. If, however, you learn how to touch your woman in ways no man has ever touched her before, your chances of getting more sex from her will increase tenfold.

That said, here are seven parts of her body you might want to head to before you get your freak on. Not only will you arouse her immensely, you'll show her that you know that sex isn't simply about penetration alone.

1- Spine

While you should never massage the spine directly, feel free to use your tongue or fingers to glide up it every now and then. To drive her crazy, let your tongue graze over the little hairs on her back. Or, you can always use your fingers to tickle your way up to her neck.

2- Behind the neck

Believe it or not, for some women, the back of the neck is the spot that makes them melt. Next time you kiss your girl, move her hair away from her neck (if applicable) and breathe on her neck, letting your lips graze against it before you kiss and then lightly bite into it.

3- Scalp

While you're kissing your girl, put your hands on the back of her head and massage her scalp for a minute. Feel free to give her hair a little tug from the roots; it will heighten her senses.

4- Shoulders

From kissing and massaging to lightly biting, the shoulders are an oft-ignored body part, but they should be given some serious attention. Because this area of a woman's body is often neglected, when you do spend some time appreciating her shoulders, she will get the chills and, in turn, you will get your thrills.

5- Breasts (not nipples)

We tend to instinctively head straight for the nipples and only grab on to the breasts when we want to bring the nipples closer to our mouths. However, if you want her nipple to beg for your attention, you need to spend some time kissing and caressing the surrounding area -- the breast. Lick and bite near the nipples without actually touching them and she'll be begging you to wrap your mouth around them.

6- Outer labia

As with the breast, when it comes to the vagina, we tend to dive right into the wet spot and ignore the outer lips. Assuming she's well-groomed, use your mouth and tongue to lick and kiss the labia majora of your woman's vagina and when you finally head on in, she'll be soaked.

7- Ankles

It's somewhat anticlimactic to finish off with it, I know, but some women love having their feet kissed and touched. But rather than her feet, opt to kiss and caress her ankles instead. Be careful; don't bite the area because it can hurt her.

Source: www.Askmen.com

The Erogenous Zones for Kissing

What are the erogenous zones that drive women wild with passion? Most obvious ones of course are her breasts and her clitoris, however there are many more. Below you will find the other top 9 female erogenous zones (some obvious and some not so obvious!) that with careful attention from you, can drive your partner wild with desire. Go slowly.

Keep in mind that women tend to like a lot of foreplay before full sex and concentrating on the erogenous zones below, will help warm your partner up, increase her desire and lead to more a satisfying sexual relationship. Here are the 9 top female erogenous zones with some tips on how to approach for maximum impact:

Top 9 female erogenous zones Outside of the two most common ones here are the other 9 zones to target.

1. Ears There are a huge amount of nerve endings in and around the ears, making them extremely sensitive to being kissed, licked and nibbled. Explore this area gently kissing, licking and nibbling both around the outside of the ear and also forget to do the occassional lick inside.

2. The Lips For many women this is their number one erogenous zone! Many women complain that they don’t get kissed enough! Women simply love to kiss so put it right. Variety and passion is the key to a good kissing experience. Let her know you want, love and desire her; there is simply no better way to do this than a passionate kiss. Try varying the intensity of the kiss, kiss softly, more passionately, and then slow down, make sure you keep her surprised and tease her with your mouth and tongue.

3. Neck The neck is one of the best erogenous zones for most women and if you have been kissing her lips try moving down to her neck next. Most women simply love having their neck kissed, licked and sucked and this makes most women feel incredibly aroused. Explore the different areas of her neck, you will find the area close to the ears is particularly sensitive, so pay particular attention to this hot spot. With this erogenous zone (in fact with all really!) variety and passion are the key, vary the intensity of your kissing, nibbling and licking and you will hear from her reaction how much she enjoys it. A word of caution! Be careful not to get too carried away, most women will not appreciate a bruised neck.

4. The Back The back is one of the most under rated female erogenous zones and the small of the back in particular, is rich in nerve endings and incredibly sensitive. Start by massaging the back for a great way to set the mood for a night of passion. Not only does massaging the back realize tension and help de-stress, it also increases the blood flow to pelvic region and increases its sensitivity. While massaging her back don’t forget to kiss and lick it, you will find that most women love this and particularly love having their spine kissed and licked running your tongue up and down this area is very erotic.

5. Legs The inner thighs and the backs of the knees have a huge amount of nerve endings and are extremely sensitive. Lightly kissing and licking in this area can be highly erotic be careful (particularly behind the knees) not to be to rough these areas are very sensitive!

7. Buttocks Most women are self conscious about their bottoms and deep down want them appreciated. Squeezing and fondling this area and kissing and licking it will be appreciated by most women, who simply love knowing their butt is liked and appreciated.

8. Feet They're a lot more sensitive than most people think. In Fact, a large area in the brain receives sensations and signals from them, so paying attention to them can be highly stimulating for most women. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them as well as massaging them with your hands are guaranteed to arouse your partner. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be exciting and pleasant for many women.

9. Hands and arms Not An erogenous zone that most men think of, but fact is most women love having their wrists kissed and nibbled by their men. Many women also like having their hands kissed (a traditional sign of affection) and their fingers sucked. Other areas to target include the joint areas of the arm.

Finally … So there you have it 9 other female erogenous zones to target which your partner will appreciate. When targeting these areas remember to do so with eagerness, passion and variety.

Source: http://www.net-planet.org/sexhealth.html

The French Kiss

Step 1
Prepare ~ Make sure you are showered, clean, and have no foul body odor. Use deodorant. Floss your teeth well, THEN brush.

Step 2
Breath Mint ~ ALWAYS carry breath mints when you think you might kiss. Find a sly way to slip one into your mouth. You mouth should be fresh and inviting. Even a fairly clean mouth get stale and unpleasant without the occasional mint.

Step 3
Get Permission ~ Make sure you have her permission before attempting a kiss. Say something like, "I really want to kiss you right now." If she objects, don't attempt the kiss.

Step 4
The Approach ~ Slowly approach her lips with yours. Pause for a moment before letting your lips touch. This will build excitement and anticipation. When your lips touch, kiss softly, briefly, and with no tongue. Then pull away slightly.

Step 5
Wait for Response ~ Pull your lips an inch or two from hers. Wait to see if she leans in or pulls away. If she pulls away, drop the kissing for a while.

Step 6
Continue ~ If she responds by leaning in for more kissing, let her lead for a moment. Open your mouth, but don't slip any tongue yet. Let her be the first to introduce the use of tongue. After she uses her tongue, you are free to use yours as well.

Step 7
Hand Placement ~ You shouldn't try to wrap her in an embrace at first. Instead, build excitement by gently touching her hands or cheek. DO NOT GRAB BODY PARTS. Go slowly.

The Advanced Kisses

If you believe kisses play a significant role in foreplay, then you are dead right. However you cannot forget the power of those sweet kisses after a session of lovemaking. Your woman cherishes those intimate moments when you hold her close to you and take her in your arms. She likes it when you gently prod her face toward you and kiss her, hugging her as she falls into sleep. The best kisses are after love-making when you softly kiss between her eyes, on the tip of her nose and kiss languidly but sharply on her lips.

A woman’s mouth is a cavern of pleasure. No one can beat the French kiss in its zenith of passion. It needs no introduction. You can experiment with kiss by taking a small piece of juicy fruit like strawberries, grapes, little pieces of mango and placing it between your lips. Kiss her on her mouth and nibble one half of the piece of the fruit while she nibbles on the other half, till it breaks into two pieces and the juice percolates into each other’s mouths. Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along your partners lip whether it is the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Women find it increasingly erotic when you suck on their lower lip while kissing.

My friend Lisa describes the nip kiss to be quite erotic. She especially enjoyed it when her partner gently nibbled on her lips during the lip-locking session. You have to be careful not to bite her too hard. Also very seductive and imaginative is the reverse kiss. In this type of kiss, you have to kiss her, starting from her scalp. As you explore southward, you have to suck her bottom lip in your mouth and suck and nibble on it gently. Your girl will throw her arms around you and let you kiss her more.

Experiment with the kisses. That way, your girl will never leave you. You are continuously incorporating innovation in your technique which keeps her perpetually wet for you. A woman is an embodiment of pleasure and to give honor only to her lips will be a tad unfair. Her toes deserve as much attention as her lips. Suck her toes and though it will tickle, she will find it amusing and fun.

To give a toe kiss, you have to gently suck the toes and then lightly start kissing the foot. Massage the base of the foot as you kiss her there. Have you wondered how it feels when you pop a piece of ice in your mouth and then draw little circles using your mouth around her belly button? You can vary your speed and pace as you apply the pressure of your mouth and ice on her belly and navel. It is very intoxicating for her as the ice melts due to the warmth of her body and the cool water trickles and runs through her bellybutton to her crotch in a languid trail. You can trace the path of water with your tongue and go southward till she moans in pleasure. You can use the ice and pass it with your tongue to her mouth and have a cool steamy French kiss.

You can lick her lips till they turn warm and then gently blow on them and the hot and cold mix will make her get mad with passion. Since most women have sensitive regions in their neck, nibbling up and down her neck and the chin can arouse her. One of my friends acknowledges that of the most surprises, she loves the one in which her boyfriend comes from behind her, hugs her and kisses the top of her shoulder. Your woman knows you have a favorite choice of beverage and drink. Do you want her to taste it? You can make her taste it from your lips. Take a small sip of your favorite drink and leave a little bit on your lips. Kiss her and let the taste get transferred to her tongue and lips. Gently keep your lips brushed against her neck, behind the ear. Then send a sexy shiver through her spine by gently humming and vibrating your lips and cheeks up and down her neck, on her cheeks and lips.

Gme for sexy love bites? If she is the sexy tigress, you are the hunter. Sneak behind her when she is busy. Quite out of surprise, grab her from behind and gently bite on her neck. Make sure to growl too and it will surprise them and keep her in splits later. Turn her around and look deep in her eyes. Slowly but softly run the tip of your tongue along her lips as if you are licking it. Then kiss her upper lip and then gently suck her lower lip. Make sure that you let your tongue caress hers as you immerse in the depths of the kiss.

Source: http://www.ehow.com/how_5504584_make-kiss-better-romantic.html

The First Kiss

Step 1
Keep your breath fresh at all times and make sure to not eat garlic or onions. Unless of coarse your partner is also eating them.

Step 2
Make sure that your lips are soft and moist. You could even take a sip of water first. But please don't lick your lips until they are slobbery wet! This will turn off your partner quicker than anything else except maybe bad breath.

Step 3
Try gently cupping the side of your partners face before leaning in for a kiss. Or depending on their hairstyle, you can even run your hands through their hair. Just remember to be gentle,you don't want to completely mess up their hair, or get your fingers caught in the strands.

Step 4
Tilt your head just slightly so that your noses don't bump (awkward). Part your lips slightly, if you open them to far your partner will feel as if you are trying to eat their face. Then lean in and close your eyes as you gently brush your lips across your partners and repeat.

Step 5
For a slightly more passionate kiss try sucking and nibbling on their lips just a little. You can even gently lick their top lip, and if they respond in turn this means that they would also like to french kiss.